Art of internet dating

Instead of saying that you like sunsets, mention the best sunset you’ve ever seen.State which tracks you enjoy, and your favourite place to see your friends.If you’re both adults, single and you use protection, it’s your choice – but if you’d rather not, that’s your choice too. Ignore those rules about waiting three days to get in touch.If you like someone, you have nothing to lose by letting them know.They’re looking for someone with brown eyes, short hair, between 5’10” and 6′, from west London, and so on. First, they make the writer sound like a control freak.Second, they sound like an exact description of the writer’s ex.If they’re interested, they’ll be happy that you called.If they’re not interested, at least you’ll know – and you can move on to the next date.

The point is, these words gave potential men multiple ways to connect with me, plus a jumping off point to message me.

"Searching for the future father of my two girls and three boys" will get an entirely different point across.

Being specific about my interests was a key reason I had such a good response to my profile.

By writing this in your profile, you’re telling people that you’re not smart or self-aware enough to write it yourself.

Most grown-ups have a history of exes, hang-ups and maybe a nervous breakdown or two. They know that you have a past, but they don’t want to hear about it. Some online dating profiles read like shopping lists.

Leave a Reply