It is a tempting situation for girls who are not actually serious in finding a man and don’t have much of a conscience.
For that matter, married women or girls with boyfriends also scam men, with no intention of leaving their Filipino men.
If you send her 0, that may seem like “not much” to you, but to them it is four month’s salary for doing nothing.
If she can float 3 other guys just like you, then she just made a full year’s salary for doing nothing more than pretending she likes you a few hours here-and-there.
Many girls do not have access to computers and regular internet connections. The girls end up they wouldn’t have otherwise found. On one such occasion, a Canadian arrived and we all went out to a nearby island. It was a pleasant day at the beach, and then we all headed back. Many Filipino families would be thrilled to pawn off their 15 year old daughter to speed up her becoming the goose that lays golden eggs.
They often will have some older woman pretend to be them in contacting foreigners on their behalf. They appreciate the situation, and don’t mind losing half the money their man sends. They keep this a secret of course, because their man might not approve. On the boat ride out to the island, the girl and her foreigner were cuddling. A few weeks later I heard of an issue they were having. I’m aware of many instances of underage girls looking for guys.
In one case I’m aware of, a guy from California came here to marry a girl.
Up until that point, the man was being used for money.
They were trying to figure out another family member who could receive the money. The answer: they will only give money if you are 18 or over. In addition, think of how silly you would feel if you visited a girl, went back home and started processing paperwork to bring her home, and at the last moment it all falls apart because she lied about her age.It would be infinitely naive to think that a Filipina girl who is 15 to 30 years younger than you would consider it equitable if you are unable to provide either stability or an improvement in lifestyle.Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not painting all Filipina girls out to be gold diggers. Her family will need a little assistance now and then.I’ll give you the pointers you need to avoid these traps later in the article. Even when things go really well, some things can go very wrong. I know of several situations where this was the case, my own included. Dating websites don’t let girls sign up if they’re under 18.In my case, there is a very common situation that exists with Filipinas who are looking for foreign men. It is important to take note that in the Filipino mindset, it is not shocking. My wife and I typically will entertain foreigner men who come to date our friends or family. If a than that and wants to sign up anyways – they will.