They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that. If he disappears, it’s because he isn’t the right guy for you.If he was the right guy for you…well he would be with you!And do NOT check up on him on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or any other social media portal.If you feel the need to check up on him, go look at funny You Tube videos or call a friend.
Because it’s an uncomfortable conversation to have and he doesn’t want to have it. Also, men just aren’t as equipped to handle emotions and emotional situations as women are, so they avoid them. They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that.
A guy can lose interest for any number of reasons and oftentimes it has more to do with him than with you.
The worst possible thing you can do is take it personally and start beating yourself up over it.
Your relationship status should never determine your worth as a person. Immerse yourself in work, spend time with friends, check out a cool new bar or museum, try out a new exercise class.
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