Some people are outgoing, others are inclined to introspection. Introverts and extroverts can balance each other out in a healthy way.
Most introverts are raised with an understanding of what their introversion means — and it’s not always the most flattering impression.
My boyfriend calmly explained that I had a life, relationship, and obligations in New York, and couldn’t just walk away from them without properly considering the outcomes. Accepting that you need that security in your life makes it easier to accept your partner as a source of your strength. It seemed rude, like he so clearly wanted nothing to leave.
He was outside of his comfort zone, interacting with my peer group to benefit me.
Which is why, as a now-expert on the subject, this is my advice to all other extroverts looking to date an introvert.
First of all, introverts make good partners for extroverts Dating an introvert was the best romantic choice I have ever made for myself.