One good way to test the waters (and to get more comfortable) with your partner is to send them some naughty text messages to see how they respond.Read on to the “Dirty Talk: Beginner Level” section for some examples of places to start, or go with something from the heart (or crotch).For the record, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with statements like “Yeah, I like that,” “You look so hot right now,” and “I love having sex with you.”But they can be supercharged in a massive way if you shift them each with a bit of descriptive detail.“Yeah, I like that” becomes “Oh my god, keep doing that.
Some people want their dirty talk to include very clinical descriptions of their genitals (penis, vagina) while others want the dirtier street slang (cock, pussy, dick, cunt, etc.).
I love how your breath pauses when I put my mouth on your (insert partner’s preferred name for their genitals here).
There’s no where else I’d rather be than inside of you/on top of you right now.”Now… 😉If so, you need to watch this video I just made where I show you the sexual techniques women have been *begging* me to teach men…You’ll learn – Strategies to last for hours in bed…
When someone says “Talk dirty to me baby…” in the bedroom the hopefully-soon-to-be dirty talker instantly freezes like a soaking wet roll of toilet paper being thrown out of an igloo in Antartica. Alas, this is what people call it so I have to meet society where it’s currently at.
Dirty talk, just like sex itself, is something that needs to be calibrated to the individual that is hearing the dirty talk from their partner.